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Therapy for People Who Are Ready to Stop Losing Themselves in Expectations

Individual and couples therapy for California adults navigating relationships, family dynamics, identity, anxiety, trauma, and major life transitions.

You may be used to being the responsible one—the person who keeps the peace, takes care of everyone else, and meets expectations. Therapy can help you understand the patterns that keep you stuck, reconnect with what you need, and build a life that feels more aligned with who you are.

Clarity, Integration, and a More Grounded Sense of Self

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Kayla Austria, Licensed Clinical Social Worker/Therapist in California
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You May be here because...

  • You are tired of always being the one everyone depends on.

  • You struggle to set boundaries without feeling guilty.

  • You feel responsible for other people's emotions.

  • You're questioning who you are outside of your roles and responsibilities.

  • Family expectations make it difficult to make decisions for yourself.

  • You're experiencing anxiety, burnout, resentment, or emotional exhaustion.

  • Your relationships feel difficult even though you deeply care about the people involved.

  • You're going through a major transition and don't feel like yourself anymore.

  • You understand where your patterns came from, but you're struggling to change them.

  • You're ready to stop repeating patterns that no longer serve you.

You don't have to wait until things become unbearable to ask for support.

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Therapy That Helps You Understand the Pattern—and Change It

Therapy isn't just about talking about what happened. It's also about understanding how your experiences have shaped the way you think, feel, relate to others, and respond to stress today.

In our work together, we'll explore the patterns underneath your current struggles while developing practical ways to respond differently.
 

My approach is collaborative, structured, and engaged. I draw from evidence-based approaches including CBT, DBT, ACT, IFS, and other therapeutic strategies based on your individual needs.

You won't be expected to have everything figured out before you begin. We'll work together to identify what matters most and determine where to begin.

What to Expect

01 — Start with a consultation

We'll talk about what brings you to therapy, what you're hoping to change, and whether my approach feels like a good fit.

02 — Understand what's happening

We'll explore your current concerns as well as the patterns, experiences, relationships, and beliefs that may be contributing to them.

03 — Build practical tools

You'll develop strategies to manage emotions, communicate more effectively, establish boundaries, and respond differently to situations that feel overwhelming.

04 — Create lasting change

The goal isn't simply to feel better temporarily. It's to develop a deeper understanding of yourself and create changes that feel sustainable.

Education

University of Southern California, 2020

Degree/Diploma: Master of Social Work

California State University

Long Beach, 2013

Degree / Diploma: Child Development and Family Studies

Qualifications

Mental Health Role: Social Worker/Therapist

Credential Type: Licensed Clinical Social Worker

License State: California

License Number: 134542

Private Pay Practice

This is a private pay practice, allowing for a more individualized and consistent standard of care.

Individual: $150, Couples/Family $175​

** Sliding Scale is available

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Reaching out for therapy can feel unfamiliar --- especially if you weren't raised to talk about emotions or ask for help.
You don't have to have everything figured out before you start. 
If this resonates with you, you're in the right place. 
Asian American Mental Health
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